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By Ary Alonso Millan(†)
The end is the biggest fear of human kind. In a stupid way, we think that feeling horrified to what happened in someone else’s life is solidarity. This is just a harmful social convention – suffer or pretend to suffer for someone – because it creates a victim consciousness to our lives. The creative intelligence, our metaphysical consciousness, only reflects what we manifest. We need to understand that the end is not a loss, we realize that once we observe the cycles in life. Everything is cyclical.
When a cycle ends, it can be a relationship, a partnership or a friendship, it only means that we need to start a new one. If there was a disruption, it is important to “kill” everything that existed before, in order to have a new fresh start. We can do that without putting people away from our lives. If a relationship took a path that ended in disrespect, it is time to break up to create a new one, even if it is with the same person. There’s only one precondition to change anything in our lives: being alive. Every moment, we can restart or do differently than what we did a minute before. This is the beauty in life!
Stop criticizing yourself for what you did and concentrate on what you are doing right now, if not, your future has a lot of chances of being a “remake” from the past. The timing in the process shows that everything renews itself. The past has passed; now, take care of creating the new, searching for the best, always, for what it’s best in your life.
Take care of the cause and control the effect.